Professional mediation services

There is no script for conflict.
There shouldn't be one for resolution either.

– You've probably already tried talking.

– Perhaps you've stopped talking altogether.

– Either way, sometimes a different conversation is the one that helps people move forward.

The Founder's Story

Why I Became a Mediator

Hi, I'm Dan Bankover. I help people have the conversations they haven't been able to have on their own.

"The best conversations I've ever been part of weren't about winning. They were about helping people move forward. That's what led me to mediation."

Portrait of the founder of Unscripted Resolution
  • Accredited Mediator
  • Specialised in Psychologically Informed Mediation
  • 20+ years negotiating in television
  • Managed multi-million pound productions
  • Thousands of difficult conversations
  • Member of relevant professional organisations

People often assume I came to mediation from a legal background.

I didn't.

For more than 20 years, I worked as a Head of Production in television. My job wasn't just about budgets, schedules and logistics—it was about people. I worked with hundreds of freelancers, executives, creatives and production teams, helping people with different personalities, priorities and perspectives work together under pressure. Difficult conversations, competing interests and conflict weren't the exception; they were simply part of everyday life.

What I discovered was that I genuinely enjoyed those conversations.

I found that when people feel listened to, respected and given the space to speak honestly, they often begin to see each other differently. The conversation changes. Solutions become possible.

That experience led me to train as an accredited mediator.

Mediation appealed to me because it isn't about deciding who's right or wrong. It's about helping people have the conversations they haven't been able to have on their own. My role isn't to judge or advise; it's to guide the process, ask thoughtful questions and create an environment where people can move beyond positions and focus on what really matters.

I've also completed training in psychologically informed mediation, which has strengthened my understanding of how emotions, communication and behaviour influence conflict. Every dispute is different, and every person arrives with their own experiences, concerns and motivations. Taking the time to understand those differences is often the key to finding a lasting resolution.

Today, through Unscripted Resolution, I help people navigate workplace, commercial and civil disputes with professionalism, impartiality and empathy.

Conflict is a normal part of life.
It doesn't have to define what happens next.

The approach

Real conversations aren't scripted — resolution shouldn't be either.

Disputes rarely move in a straight line. They loop, stall, and circle back to the same sore point. Mediation isn't about forcing people into a script or a settlement neither side chose — it's about giving that winding conversation a neutral structure to move through, at a pace both sides can actually work with.

As a trained, neutral third party, Unscripted Resolution doesn't take sides or hand down a verdict. The role is to keep the conversation honest, on track, and headed toward an agreement that holds up — because both people helped write it.

What we help with

Mediation for the moments that need a neutral room.

Family & Divorce

Parenting plans, division of assets, and next steps — worked out at the kitchen table, not the courtroom.

Workplace & Business

Partner disputes, employment conflicts, and business breakups, handled without torching the working relationship.

Community & Civil

Neighbor disputes, contracts, and everyday disagreements that just need a structured, neutral conversation.

Elder & Estate

Caregiving decisions and estate disagreements, navigated with the whole family in the room and respected.

How it works

Four steps. No rehearsal required.

Every case is different, but the path stays the same — a clear sequence from first conversation to written agreement.

01

Reach out

Book a free 20-minute consultation to talk through the situation and see if mediation is the right fit.

02

Intake

Each side shares their perspective privately first, so sessions start with full context — not from scratch.

03

Sessions

Guided conversations focused on interests, not positions, at a pace that fits the people in the room.

04

Agreement

Leave with a clear, written resolution both sides actually agreed to — and are far more likely to keep.

Common questions

Frequently asked questions

Yes. What's said in mediation stays in mediation. Sessions are private, and — unlike a courtroom — nothing becomes part of a public record.

It varies by case, but mediation is typically a small fraction of the cost of litigation. The free initial consultation will give you a clear quote before you commit to anything.

Most mediations reach an agreement both sides sign. It works best when everyone comes willing to listen — but even partial progress can make the eventual resolution easier.

Mediation only works if both sides agree to take part. If the other person is reluctant, an invitation from a neutral third party often feels far less confrontational than one from you directly — that's something we can help with.

Not necessarily. Joint sessions, separate sessions, or a mix of both are all options — whatever makes honest conversation possible is what we'll use.

Many cases resolve in just a day — far quicker than the months or years a court process can take.

No, though you're welcome to consult one alongside the process. Many people complete mediation without one and bring in legal advice only to review the final written agreement.

Why mediation

The same dispute, two very different rooms.

Litigation

  • Public record, decided by a judge on someone else's timeline
  • Often months or years, with legal costs on both sides
  • Adversarial by design — a winner and a loser
  • Relationships often don't survive the process

Mediation

  • Private and confidential, on a schedule that works for you
  • Typically days, not years — and a fraction of the cost
  • Collaborative — both sides keep control of the outcome
  • Built to preserve the relationship, not just end the dispute

About your mediator

A neutral, trained guide — not a judge.

Unscripted Resolution was founded on a simple idea: most disputes don't need a verdict, they need a better conversation. As a trained mediator, the job here isn't to decide who's right — it's to create a room where both sides can be heard, stay honest, and actually reach an agreement they helped build.

Sessions are held in person or remotely, and every conversation is confidential from the first call to the final signature.

20+ yrsLeading people through pressure, pre-mediation
AccreditedTrained & accredited mediator
Psych-informedSpecialist training completed

In their words

What clients say

“Dan made us both feel heard.”

“He stayed calm when emotions were running high.”

“He helped us focus on practical solutions.”

“The process felt fair from beginning to end.”

Get started

Ready for a conversation that actually moves?

Book a free 20-minute consultation. No pressure, no commitment — just a chance to see whether mediation fits your situation.

hello@unscriptedresolution.com (000) 000-0000 Sessions available in person & remote

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